"What information can you give me about the Narada, if you say you've gathered some. Shield design, weaponry... ways to talk with her too. I need all of that.. if she attacks, I want a way to defend this ship. If she will talk, I need to be able to bargain with her, or be able to listen in while you do."

Spock would probably be the best bet to talk to her, as at least the ship knew him. He wasn't sure he could entirely keep his cool either in the situation... something he was still learning how to handle.